Tashi sitting sweetly eating her oatmeal. She breaks the silence. 'mommy i do want to fight bad guys. I do.' there is a pattern in my family of middle children wanting to fight bad guys in some way. I am the middle child that was too scared but deep down would love to be a bounty hunter or maybe someone who just gathers intelligence  But my motherly heart hurts to picture my sweet baby actually going into any of that!